Archive for the 'Intimacy' Category

Men And Their Mothers

Wednesday, August 22nd, 2007

Henry here today and I’m about to say something you don’t expect me to say. There was a great detective story on the other day. Eddy Murphy was the good detective. He caught a thief with jewels and put him in jail. Then his girl was attacked by someone the thief had contracted with to […]

Loving Vs. Being In Love

Monday, March 6th, 2006

“We shall always be in love. We will continue to keep our love alive the same way it is now,” said a nice young lady in the front row of a recent pre-marriage workshop. Her fiancé sitting beside her smiled contentedly. I though of her comment when I read an article copied in our local […]

My dream girl

Thursday, August 25th, 2005

The mystery between the sexes is endless. Take, for example, a little experiment. If we take ten men and show them pictures of ten different woman, ask them what they think their names are and what their personalities are like we will get an immense variety of responses.

They all see the same pictures of the […]

Men are like search engines

Wednesday, August 10th, 2005

Greetings. To begin with, I should say that I got some negative reaction to my post yesterday about thong underwear as a disappointing technology shift, in the sense that it didn’t mesh well with Dad’s post on the importance of listening in relationships. It seemed an interesting topic and an insightful post at the time, […]

I know what you’re thinking!

Tuesday, August 9th, 2005

“I know what you are thinking” is a common phrase in relationships and in the counselor’s office. This is a powerful and very destructive false myth. We have the delusion that we can read the other person’s head and know what they are thinking. When […]

Talking it out

Monday, August 8th, 2005

Even when people need to talk about their concerns, it is often extremely hard for many to do so. People come for therapy, where they know that they have to talk and they still hesitate.

I taught Clinical Pastoral Education for 15 years and know that even clergy, who will be hearing people’s stories over […]

How the internet has changed our lives.

Monday, August 8th, 2005

Welcome to another entry in When Reality Knocks Lifestyle and Technology Guide. Today’s topic: A ten-year evaluation of the internet and how it has changed our lives.
CNN ran a story recently about how much the internet has changed our lives in the past 10 years and it has indeed. I’ve been feeling a little […]